Guest Blog: "50/50/100 Relationships" by @NateSaid

Relationships have to be 50/50 in order to have any chance at long-term happiness. And by 50/50 I mean half and half everything. Even truths and lies. Especially truth and lies.

We're going to take a look at this from three different sides. The good guy liar, the bad guy liar and the guy who just tells the truth.

Let's start with the bad guy liar in a relationship. He's someone who cheats on you occasionally. You always have to question his every story. Clock his every move. You don't even know why you fell for him but you definitely fell for him. Now here's where the 50/50 comes in to play. Being 100% in the wrong means you have to give 50% of the truth. Meaning during heightened conversations aka arguments about other women with your main woman, you never ever openly say you're cheating (duh). You never ever let her think she's right even when she's completely right. Matter of fact, your only job is to tell enough lies to get her to second guess herself until she's battling in her head with 50% of lies and 50% of truths. So how do you manage to keep a relationship full of deceit running? With more lies and deceit. 

Now let's look at the good guy liar. The good guy liar is typically the one who does all the right things. Never cheats, keeps a smile on his tenderoni's face, etcetera etcetera. Time for the 50/50 rule. You're probably wondering why this guy has to lie right? To balance the relationship out is the answer. Still confused? Well the 50/50 rule doesn't necessarily mean lying in this case. It just means saying the right amount of the right things that do things like force her to contemplate if she's the only one or not (even though she is). Why? Believe it or not women don't let to be pampered to death. They like to be pampered with room to pamper themselves . 50/50. Makes sense right? If you over pamper a girl, she's going to walk all over you. That's just the reality of the situation. And sooner or later she's going to get bored of it and eventually leave you. Keep things 50/50 for smooth sailings.

What about the guy who tells the truth 100% with no holds barred? That type of guy is single the most. Sure a woman will respect and appreciate the dude that keep things 100 with her all the time. But the truth of the matter is: if you're messing around not many women will stick around through that. So to keep the one(s) you want around you have to keep it 50/50.

I don't have the statistics to prove these theories but just know it's the right way to go about things. 

Yours Truly,

The Boy (@NateSaid)