The Ain't Sh*t Guy

The most obvious open book type of male you will run across. Why speak on this species of nigga? Yes white folk I know if you're reading this you clear ass day screamed aloud in your heads nigga. But why give them acknowledgement? Because they are over running the earth like the abominable cockroach that nobody but one person in the house seems to see and that person being you. Now I spoke on the home girl that basically is your friends ladies that cause you to be blinded on how to deal with Mr. too good to be true in turn making him look like the ain't shit guy. The guy your home girls are actually dating. That's why their minds are tainted. What is this guy doing to our women to where no other man is safe from the bitter war cry of "YOU AIN'T SHIT!"? Daddy issues? Maybe. No good male role models in their life? Maybe. These cockroaches that chill on the couch and ask you to pass the Doritos and grape drink just don't get the way they act but are very comfortable with it. They don't know what the hell responsibility is. You need help with diapers but he needs a blunt, now & laters and a cold arizona guess what he copping?

Not them damn shit catchers for your watermelon headed child I tell you that and he'll tell you he loves you and you will vent to your other home girls then while staying. Yes, that's when the side effects of a home girl appear. The ain't shit guy is an user, part selfish but open. You see everything and all of what you don't want in him up front. Hard to leave him but you stay. A million men that walk the fine line of seeing what is said in this. Per guy code we can't deliberately go "Yo dude ain't shit why you dealing with that? You can do way better." We come off "hating", closely dirty macking depending on our own personal intentions. Nothing actually wrong with saying that but some guys know you're not going to listen to them so they chill listen to you, ask you how you are and keep it moving til you yourself wake up. Mr. ain't shit is comfortable with a loyal woman that he KNOWS never never never never never... never gonna go nowhere. Same chick will end up pregnant, single and yelling to the world on how he ain't shit, never gonna be shit, broke, needs a life but never sat and said damn why did I even stay when I knew since the get go what he was? Like I stated these guys are open books. No job, no money, dreams that they not motivated to get if it ain't closer than a cell phone to hit up the local weed man. He looks out for himself so much you question everyone for not supporting your love. What love is there other than a word to keep you hooked? It makes the guys who actually bout something sick because they are criticized more for any wrong doing than these men who just wasting away the good air and good dumb stuck women who deserve better but scared to make a move. Before you judge Mr. too good to be true for the faults your bum nigga have, before you look in the mirror and see yourself being a home girl, ask yourself, is my nigga ain't shit? What is he doing for me and MY future? Are we growing into a great space or wasting it?