A guy will be ur friend before he becomes ur lover but chicks gotta understand that its the guy who decides when that line is crossed Ive crossed uncrossed n crossed again that friend/lover line wit chicks its truly our decision, girls will say they hate us nshit but Let us show a slight change of heart, personality, charter Watevr u want to call it, we r allowed back into her heart its as simple as hello. Not saying chicks can't jus be friends wit guys cuz they can but once we have ur heart we have ya mind after that we kno how u work. When we kno how u work its nothing more u can do some men r cruel wit it some r caring, so ladies be careful who u choose as ya friend/lover.
when i say some men are cruel i mean they use u in every which way possible. these are usually
the ones who abuse or cheat on their women. She says she cant leave cuz she scared but its really cuz she love him. If she was scared she would leave. We run when we scared we dont stay in harms way (unless u one of them white folks in the scary movies) then u jus a fuckin dumb ass. Dont try & fight the nigga either ol' jennifer lopez in Enough Jaden Smith karate kid wanna be hoes smh thats jus stupid too. If he cruelly playin with ur heart & u kno it y stay others are out there for u TRUST. Now to the guy who understands ur heart & is caring with it those are the ones u need ladies. They are the ones who leave come back leave again not cuz he wanna toy wit u its cuz he knows u havent found who u are yet and he doin his best to help u do that. He leaves because he feels he is the problem but comes back cuz u show him that he isn't. Its a confusing battle that we all have been in or will go thru.
Now i kno yall wondering what this may have to do witha guy being your friend. Friends fall in love with friends thats what. Jus like i stated in the first sentence of the post its up to us if we stay friends or not. sometimes its a good thing sometimes its not & thats what the whole second paragraph was detailing, the good & the bad. So ladies dont get mad at us ur friend who equally falls in love with u but doesnt make the relationship jump. Sometimes its for the better of the friendship, no matter what though, he'll always be there for u. if if yall date or not thats the best thing he will stick wit u forever jus dont lose that one who tryna be there for u cuz u think he (even as a friend) aint shit. but before i end this its and easier way to handle this whole problem....
AINT NOTHING WRONG WITH FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS! and im out...
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