Being Her Superman

If you're not able to be her everything, well you can't be her superman. Tough job to be her hero and turn around and be that man she always around that she sees is good but not good enough to save her. Little does she know you are both to her. Until she finally realizes this then you are at one moment her hero and the next her friend business partner in life. It screams of tiring yourself out as a man playing dual rolls for the lady you giving your all to. So... being her Superman, what might it take?


Business Man:

Constantly working and doing all he can to provide and showcase his mind is set on the right path. Intriguing guy to the eye that she knows she needs in her life. Knows he wants to be there for her but he can't because the hero isn't him, the worker is. Catching her eye with the way you are focused into a better future you and those around you gets her going. She loves that aspect of who you are. She at the same time wants more from you as you want more to give to her. See sticking to you business is the best half of you but the worst because that's all you stick to. Yes, like I said prior he knows this fault attempts at being the hero but it doesn't come across as smoothly. So, he "fails" at these attempts while she picks him up, dusts him off, and let's him know it's not him but the attempt was noticed. Her noticing it does keep her there with you. Keeps her right by your side because she at least knows she isn't invisible to you. Now don't be the one who doesn't see her. That's how the villain, the Side guy comes and takes her until you see in yourself the hero you need to be to save her or the business man who knows you can't and settle with losing her.

The Hero:

No not captain save a hoe but the man of her dreams. The one she looks into the night sky to come and rescue her from the evils of the world. Saving her from work stresses, childish gossip, her insecurities, bad relationships and all the things that bring the joy back into her life. The one who makes her feel free. His only duty is to save her from these troubles and nothing more. She lonely? He comes right over to warm up that butt and sleep the night away. She hungry and bored? Flying right to her door to scoop her to dinner and a movie. The business man can try to always pull these feats off but again he fails but is at least applauded by her. A bottle of wine in the crib to the business man is a trip to a vineyard tasting all the nicely stomped out grapes the hero provides. Netflix and a foot rub after weeks of her complaining to the business man is IMAX theater with the reclining chair every weekend to the hero. Nightly foot rubs, sex at her request, shown to the world from the smallest to the largest scale. Remember the hero only job is to save her not to be focused on business that life's reality outside of her needs. Troubling thing bout being the hero is everyone soon needs one and that where he may stay saving you or fly to save another. Even if he just stays to save you how he does the saving may be either the good way or the by any means way, the Anti-Hero.

Now before you feel EVERY man is either one because some men aren't even men yet they are really just little boys getting by off what the business man and the hero have shown. You know the sidekicks. That guy that's there thinking he really out doing something and you give him a pass because of a little cape he throws on and a  couple back flips he can land. Not touching the topic of the villain, the Anti-Hero or the sidekicks yet. Got to save those for later. Just know being the man that she wants and needs takes two of you. How well you pull it off is based off who you yourself want to be and who you yourself need to be.