Connecting with someone you seamlessly feel is the next one in line of your dreams to be the one is very important. It's one of those life goals that has to be completed in making us feel whole before we pass from this earth. How we connect with them just takes three things. Physical, Emotional, and Mental. Some have easier understanding than others that carry a more deeper intertwining between the two. So let's begin...
Physical:
The most obvious of them all. The one that caught our eyes and brought us into interest with the person we sought out or sought us out. The features that help work to spark the last of the connections that get that running to trigger another. The physical being of another that draws us in. Purely built off lust, The physical nature of someone can be dangerous but enjoyable. It's what we want. They are the right height, skin tone, carrying the right length of hair, to hair pigment, with the cutest lips to beautiful eyes, etc etc. As I ran down that list of features tell me someone didn't pop into your head. They did and you had to hold back a smile that was becoming to your face. As that smile came you started to hear their voice. Again purely built off lust people have to have something we want in our lives physically to get our attention then keep us there. The voice is a feature that plays into our ears that hits our mind and gets it going because we know once that nervous tingly feeling makes our heart race, we see them, we have now become stuck. Stuck as in theirs. You can see them, you can hear them but they have to bring something with that presence to keep us interested. I mentioned the mind but I want to talk about the heart next...
Emotional:
Putting your heart into what you enjoy seeing. Happiness is becoming of you around this person. You feel as if the world is yours all due to this person. Now happiness is not the only thing that will be present as emotions go there will be ups and downs. The one you came to off what they physically brought into your life now brings out more than a smile. Days you will sad, others you will carry around anger and back to happiness again (hopefully). Your heart is now in it. You want them to feel how you feel in hopes to make more progression into a greater future together. Now... I'm talking connections right? Y'all have to connect. Once they look like what you need in life, they have to feel what you need in life. You gotta be happy when they are. you have to provide happiness when they aren't. No one wants a riff between them and the person they ideally feel is the one. Gotta balance out with not much emotional tug and pull to carry on to the next step...
Mental:
Mentally being stimulated off the physicality and emotional characteristics of one will further push that connection into a solid foundation. They look like what you want, give your heart what it needs, and now your mind is fixated on completion. Every action now has a focus based off that person. Your thoughts carry into reactions that go towards that one person of interest. They look good and give you everything your heart desires to feel good now your mind envisions what the finish line is and you go about speaking and acting out to bring about the vision. See once the mind has be grasped after the heart and body and all work simultaniously together you may come to love. Now that goes back to the emotion but works jointly with how you mentally view things.
One of these being off doesn't mean you won't deal with a person but all of these on does mean that person will have a hard time going somewhere from you. Once they work all together and given out to your person of interest and equally given back that is the greatest feeling, the ultimate connection. Your minds sync up to where you predict every thought, word and action they are bout to carry out. You look at them an without a word know how they are feeling and know exactly what to do to bring it up to the one they need. As long as we can connect as best we can with anyone that brings out the best we have to offer out of these three things and turn them into a solid one, that balance is beautiful and scary. Scary to the point you love it and want ti to continue coming
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