Love is a Reality Show

It doesn't matter if you're on the side where it's elegant like the bachelor or ratchet like the flavor of love... love is a reality show. You start it off with many choices and narrow it all down to one hopeful. That's the goal and the plan of these shows but what we fail to realize it's it takes the open stretched out dating scene that can spread to different cities and states and makes it easier by placing them all under one roof. Now the competition is right next to you. The competition isn't a tweet under you or friend request accepted before you. 10 seconds of watched snap videos before you entered the room or a double tap 82 weeks after a lunch date. No, your competition is one date prior to you being eliminated out that nice rented out house. So why not focus on getting that last rose instead of focusing on who might catch the bill on the little dinner he/she went on that you weren't told about?
When you date you have to know you are among the group in that house and you aim to last til it's you and the last one of them. You not aiming to argue and watch what the next is doing for the prize when you feel you better than the next. You in that marathon but be careful... some of you sprint and burn yourselves out. Now the rest are running past you and all you can do is say the race wasn't fair to you. Maybe you should better prep for the race and that's what happens sometimes. One race was not meant for us and we try another from what we learned and make it a little farther. Train long enough and better then try that old race again and who knows, now you may cross that line and win that trophy. So you on one show and fail, go try another. Them cameras cut off you may see things better for you and the host and actually be suitable for each other. Now the cameras can be compared to the social media viewing while the audience is those who try to tell you what you have. Telling the host who to choose and who the winner should be. Now you who is on the show not able to see this unless you can't help but want your choices of your life and future to be dictated by others. Do not be cut off early even though it'll hurt being the last cut off the show. Being the last cut off just means you were worth it but the chosen one was just more suitable. All them lunches, movie nights and family meetings are the interactions on each and every episode that checks you into becoming the one. You may pass the tests of lunch outings but maybe that interaction with mom almost got you the boot. You may suck at cooking but grandma wants you to have the babies. OK, I don't know who will make it past cooking that may be episode one or two. I prefer number two because I personally may not like you after we eat a nice greasy burger before a walk in the park. Besides my person cuts I may make in my future of dating when I choose to step into that show, we have to understand while we make it an one on one mind state when going after someone on their show, we are not the only one til they make us. I see girls always ending up heart broken because they rush in with one guy who end the end trying to make his show last a full season. Focus like you the only one while knowing you not til you are. Ladies you met a guy and made him automatically bae while he trying to make sure you're worth that equal level of affection. He can take you out and a million other women, that don't make him wrong cause you instantly settled. You're on his show, don't forget that. Now on the contrary I've seen guys on women shows know he has to focus on getting her but keep in the back of their mind they are in the competition with others. Do they act like it? Not really because they talk to you like you are the one til you come out your mouth ladies and call him bae, bf, or any other form of solidifying he has the final rose. Always pay attention to who's the host of the show. Train for the distance. Run and pray If you want to be the one. Better hope that it ends up a long season with a spin off and 2hr wedding special. If not then you know your episode may come soon to show you walking off. Don't take it to heart. Start your own show and get to making those choices. When the season finale comes you'll have your winner or better yet the host from the last show may come back and y'all have that spin off and special still.